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The legislation of marriage in the Song Dynasty was generally followed by the Tang system, but for the conclusion of marriage, it stipulated that relatives within the five clothes were prohibited from getting married, and the marriage between the aunts and sisters of the aunt was not prohibited. . Song law also stipulated that on the date of office of Zhuzhou County, it was not allowed to marry the people of his subordinates. Officials and county magistrates above the county and county are the same as the officials in the place. If his engagement is before, after the official residence, and the three auxiliary official gatekeepers are quite willing, it is not restricted. The exception of the woman's unwillingness to regret marriage, that is, after the engagement, the male family does not marry for three years. The woman can take the initiative to lift the marriage contract under the prerequisites of recruiting money. The regulations on the divorce of marriage in the Song Dynasty, which completely inherited the rules of the Tang law, based on the traditional "seven outs", "three non -going", and "righteousness" as the condition. The meaning of "Seven Outs", "Three Nothing", and "Righteousness" is no different from the previous dynasties, but the conditions for no children have been further defined. If according to law, before the age of 49, the married women in the Song Dynasty could not be driven out of the house by the husband's family. The exception of "three non -go" is that if his wife has evil diseases and adultery with others, it reflects the true intention of Song Lu to maintain the inheritance of the ancestors. "Seven Outs" is the privilege of the wife's unilateral wife who gives her husband unilaterally. Women are always passive on the issue of marriage. With the development of society, especially the prosperity of the commodity economy of the Song Dynasty, people's ideas are impacted. It is manifested in the marriage system. Under certain conditions, women in the Song Dynasty have certain legal divorce rights. First of all, if the husband is not returned for three years, his wife can divorce. Secondly, the husband ordered his wife or hired his wife and others, and his wife could divorce. Because the husband forced his wife to do his best, he not only violated social ethics, but also destroyed family harmony. Therefore, the law gave such a situation with such a situation to take the initiative to divorce. It is to stabilize the social order, and the officials of all ages are prohibited from selling their wives, but the people still hire their wives and people. At the same time as the official sanctions of the Song Dynasty, the officials of the Song Dynasty also given the women who were hired by the classics. Take the right to take the initiative. The two Song dynasties also stipulated that the husband's crime was exiled or the hometown was moved by other punishments, and his wife could divorce. The regulations of the legal divorce rights of married women in the Song Dynasty were not available for previous generations. The wedding in the Song Dynasty still undertaken the last generation, with "six gifts" as the main content, but the specific wedding procedures have changed, especially the people's marriage and marriage, etiquette, etiquette and customs. , And with a certain characteristics of the times. If people marry and marry, first pass the post by the matchmaker. The post is actually a list of people names and birthdays. At first, the matchmaker passed on the straw posts of both parties. After the men and women got the other party's grass post, they asked Ji to ask Ji. If the men and women do not meet each other, they get a good hexagram. After the rumors of the matchmaker, the two agreed, and then they would be "detailed. Post "Marriage. D fine posts are also called fixed posts. The male family's fixed post should write the three generations of official positions of the male family. The name is taboo. The relatives are the first son of the family. What is the official position? Whether the parents are alive when they are born and the day of birth, whether they are married, whether they are entered. It is also necessary to write the gold and silver field soil, and the industry, the house, the corridor, and the mountain garden are set on the post. This, the woman replied to post, and also wrote the above content. The relatives are the most daughters in the family. When they were born, they were tied with houses, jewelry, gold and silver, pearls, and treasures. After the post is written, the matchmaker notified the two to choose the post. Parents of both parties can be determined. The first is that both parties are placed in a "color lining" and gave it to each other. Followed by blind dates. The male family chose Jiri, prepared a banquet, and asked the female family. Generally, in the garden restaurant and lake boat, the two relatives meet. If of the two sides, the male family was inserted into the women's crown with gold, and it was called "inserting". If you do not agree, the male family will give the female house two satin, which is called a surprise. After the blind date is determined, the gift must be set. The fixed gifts are generally used in the loud wine bottle, packed into 8 large flowers, and used raw Luo silk or 8 silver wins, and used the red red to pay the wine, named "Paying Red". There are more gifts for rich people, including Zhu Cui jewelry, goldenware, gold skirts, 褙, satin, tea cakes, two sheep, golden bottle wine, 4 or 8 or 8. The male ritual books in total, named "Shuangye". Use the red and green golden book bag to make a gift book, or use Luo Yan to draw a green cup of five men and two women, and put on a gift book. There are a total of 10 boxes or 8 boxes of Dingli, covering it with color singles and sending them to the female house. The female family was ready to return the gift that day. The Northern Song Dynasty, most people used two bottles of freshwater, three or five live fish, and a pair of chopsticks. It in the Southern Song Dynasty, wealthy people were in large powsing and returning gifts. The female reciprocal gifts include Purple and color satin, beads, and soap towel sections, golden jade, Pa, Qibao towel ring, Pa, shoes and socks, female workers, etc. Some also took half of the eight cake tea and eight bottles of wine sent by the man. The sheep also returned one back. Put the water with two wine vessels. Put four goldfish in the water. Inside. If it is a rich man, you will use gold and silver to create chopsticks, and use colored scallions to hang out of the fish and wine device as a gift. After the gift was given, when the festival was met, the man still gave a gift to the female house. If in the Song Dynasty weddings, in addition to sending a fixed ceremony, you need to give a gift as usual. When the matchmaker set the hire, the man was light with goose wine, and he was hired by sheep wine. The wealthy home generally uses three gold, namely golden, gold bracelets, and golden pendants. If there is no gold ware, it should also be replaced by silver. People who do not have money should also send crickets and silver, goose wine, tea cakes, etc. The gifts for giving more gifts, campaign gold -sleeved yellow Luo, gold skirt satin, red long skirt or red vegetarian lofty satin, as well as jewelry such as pearls of beads, four o'clock crowns, pearl green rings and other jewelry , And the fine -colored satin, crickets, adding tea, fruit, reunion cakes, sheep wine and other objects. Two envelopes are also encapsulated to apply for books to make a ritual shape. Is after the female family is hired, they also need to thank them with gifts. Generally, they use Green Purple, color satin, Jinyu Wenfang toys, Zhu Cui, and female workers. In addition, it is also necessary to send the matchmaker's "media box". The box is equipped with satin, cup dishes, money, etc., and presented with a red gift box. After the men's family gave the gift, there was no need to give gifts to the woman in the New Year, only to choose a day to get married. This family chose a good day, and told the female family that the female family agreed that the male family could come to meet her. The day before greeting, the female family sent someone to the male home first, paved the house and hung the tent, and placed the house, jewelry and other things. After the new house is arranged, let the most friendly woman or a married woman guard the new house, and prevent outsiders from entering the room. Only after the newcomer comes, the new house is opened. The man's family is holding vases, candlers, incense balls, samples, sasho, candlesticks, skirt boxes, clothing boxes, blue umbrellas, plays, and hire the band to escort, and hire the band to escort Flower sedan, blow all the way, go to the female house to marry a new woman. The women who use their family wines to be taken to relatives, and emit red silver and profitable money for everyone, and then the band plays the music "to urge makeup". Pets after the woman boarded the car, and the person who lifted the burden and carried a sedan did not start immediately after the money was finished. The band played music at this time, advocating all the way, welcoming the newcomer to the man's house. The bride's sedan arrived at the door of the man's house. People who welcomed the relatives such as musicians, kabuki, tea and wine to read each other, and stopped the door for money. Mr. Yin and Yang fits the bucket boxes of full -grain beans, money, colorful fruit, etc., looking at the door and sprinkle, and children are scrambling to pick up, called "Satan beans". Satuga bean is intended to suppress the evil god of Qingyang Sha. The newcomers get out of the car, one person holds the mirror in front of him, and the two relative women support the newcomer to move forward. The newcomers are not allowed to step on the ground, they can only walk on the green mattress or green felt, green cloth strip, and flower mats. The newcomer wants to cross the saddle and walk through the scale. It enter the middle door to the first room. Among them, the new woman goes in, named "sitting in the virtual account", or go straight into the room, sitting in the bed, called "rich and expensive". Couns family relatives and guests who send female guests to return after eating three wines, which means that four wines are prepared for the male family, and they will be sent to the female guests. . The color satin hanging in front of the new house door, first cut the bottom into a broken strip shape. After the groom wearing a green robe and the official uniform of the flower head entered the door, the crowd will compete for the broken strip. Gate red ". The groom invited the new woman in front of the bed. , The man fell out of the door so that the two people could face each other. In a pair of new couples, and then the man's double -daughter -in -law, using a scale pole or other things to open the bride's hijab. At this time, Fang Lu's bride face. The two of them saluted the relatives. Then the woman fell, and held the groom back to the room, and then sat in bed. When sitting, the woman was left and the man to the right. At this time, there were women with money and color. Sprinkle the satin and fruit, and then connect the two wine glasses with red and green colored knots. The men and women drink a glass of each, named "Flowing Cup Wine". After drinking, put the wine glass under the bed and take the meaning of great auspiciousness. At the same time, the male left and women's right -handed hair "knot", also known as "harmony". The flower with the flower on the woman's head at this time, the female solves a buttons. Then the newcomer will be When I went to the middle hall to participate in the gratitude, my relatives and friends must celebrate, and the newcomers worshiped the in -laws of my in -laws together. Since then, all relatives have entered the gift. Five times on the next day, use a table to install the mirror table to put the mirror on it. The new woman worshiped the worship, called "New Women's By Worship". Then worship the relatives of the elderly, and presented with color satin, ingenuity, shoe and socks, etc., called "Receiving Congratulations". On the three days, the female family put crown flowers, color satin, and goose eggs, and used gold and silver tanks to fill the oily honeydin. In addition, she was sent to the male house with tea cakes, goose sheep, fruits, etc. The groom and groom went to the female house to worship the door on the three or seven days, and nine days. Huilang "ended, the female family asked the band to advocate to send it home. The female family would" wash her hair "within nine days. My dear and relatives are called "He Manyue Club". This above, showing that the Song Dynasty's people marrying and marrying etiquette were cumbersome, and there were a lot of famous names, which reflected the customs of weddings at the time.
The legislation of marriage in the Song Dynasty was generally followed by the Tang system, but for the conclusion of marriage, it stipulated that relatives within the five clothes were prohibited from getting married, and the marriage between the aunts and sisters of the aunt was not prohibited.
. Song law also stipulated that on the date of office of Zhuzhou County, it was not allowed to marry the people of his subordinates. Officials and county magistrates above the county and county are the same as the officials in the place. If his engagement is before, after the official residence, and the three auxiliary official gatekeepers are quite willing, it is not restricted.
The exception of the woman's unwillingness to regret marriage, that is, after the engagement, the male family does not marry for three years. The woman can take the initiative to lift the marriage contract under the prerequisites of recruiting money.
The regulations on the divorce of marriage in the Song Dynasty, which completely inherited the rules of the Tang law, based on the traditional "seven outs", "three non -going", and "righteousness" as the condition. The meaning of "Seven Outs", "Three Nothing", and "Righteousness" is no different from the previous dynasties, but the conditions for no children have been further defined.
If according to law, before the age of 49, the married women in the Song Dynasty could not be driven out of the house by the husband's family. The exception of "three non -go" is that if his wife has evil diseases and adultery with others, it reflects the true intention of Song Lu to maintain the inheritance of the ancestors.
"Seven Outs" is the privilege of the wife's unilateral wife who gives her husband unilaterally. Women are always passive on the issue of marriage.
With the development of society, especially the prosperity of the commodity economy of the Song Dynasty, people's ideas are impacted. It is manifested in the marriage system. Under certain conditions, women in the Song Dynasty have certain legal divorce rights.
First of all, if the husband is not returned for three years, his wife can divorce. Secondly, the husband ordered his wife or hired his wife and others, and his wife could divorce. Because the husband forced his wife to do his best, he not only violated social ethics, but also destroyed family harmony. Therefore, the law gave such a situation with such a situation to take the initiative to divorce.
It is to stabilize the social order, and the officials of all ages are prohibited from selling their wives, but the people still hire their wives and people. At the same time as the official sanctions of the Song Dynasty, the officials of the Song Dynasty also given the women who were hired by the classics. Take the right to take the initiative.
The two Song dynasties also stipulated that the husband's crime was exiled or the hometown was moved by other punishments, and his wife could divorce. The regulations of the legal divorce rights of married women in the Song Dynasty were not available for previous generations.
The wedding in the Song Dynasty still undertaken the last generation, with "six gifts" as the main content, but the specific wedding procedures have changed, especially the people's marriage and marriage, etiquette, etiquette and customs. , And with a certain characteristics of the times.
If people marry and marry, first pass the post by the matchmaker. The post is actually a list of people names and birthdays. At first, the matchmaker passed on the straw posts of both parties. After the men and women got the other party's grass post, they asked Ji to ask Ji. If the men and women do not meet each other, they get a good hexagram. After the rumors of the matchmaker, the two agreed, and then they would be "detailed. Post "Marriage.
D fine posts are also called fixed posts. The male family's fixed post should write the three generations of official positions of the male family. The name is taboo. The relatives are the first son of the family. What is the official position? Whether the parents are alive when they are born and the day of birth, whether they are married, whether they are entered. It is also necessary to write the gold and silver field soil, and the industry, the house, the corridor, and the mountain garden are set on the post.
This, the woman replied to post, and also wrote the above content. The relatives are the most daughters in the family. When they were born, they were tied with houses, jewelry, gold and silver, pearls, and treasures. After the post is written, the matchmaker notified the two to choose the post.
Parents of both parties can be determined. The first is that both parties are placed in a "color lining" and gave it to each other. Followed by blind dates. The male family chose Jiri, prepared a banquet, and asked the female family. Generally, in the garden restaurant and lake boat, the two relatives meet.
If of the two sides, the male family was inserted into the women's crown with gold, and it was called "inserting". If you do not agree, the male family will give the female house two satin, which is called a surprise.
After the blind date is determined, the gift must be set. The fixed gifts are generally used in the loud wine bottle, packed into 8 large flowers, and used raw Luo silk or 8 silver wins, and used the red red to pay the wine, named "Paying Red". There are more gifts for rich people, including Zhu Cui jewelry, goldenware, gold skirts, 褙, satin, tea cakes, two sheep, golden bottle wine, 4 or 8 or 8.
The male ritual books in total, named "Shuangye". Use the red and green golden book bag to make a gift book, or use Luo Yan to draw a green cup of five men and two women, and put on a gift book. There are a total of 10 boxes or 8 boxes of Dingli, covering it with color singles and sending them to the female house. The female family was ready to return the gift that day.
The Northern Song Dynasty, most people used two bottles of freshwater, three or five live fish, and a pair of chopsticks.
It in the Southern Song Dynasty, wealthy people were in large powsing and returning gifts. The female reciprocal gifts include Purple and color satin, beads, and soap towel sections, golden jade, Pa, Qibao towel ring, Pa, shoes and socks, female workers, etc. Some also took half of the eight cake tea and eight bottles of wine sent by the man. The sheep also returned one back. Put the water with two wine vessels. Put four goldfish in the water. Inside.
If it is a rich man, you will use gold and silver to create chopsticks, and use colored scallions to hang out of the fish and wine device as a gift. After the gift was given, when the festival was met, the man still gave a gift to the female house.
If in the Song Dynasty weddings, in addition to sending a fixed ceremony, you need to give a gift as usual. When the matchmaker set the hire, the man was light with goose wine, and he was hired by sheep wine.
The wealthy home generally uses three gold, namely golden, gold bracelets, and golden pendants. If there is no gold ware, it should also be replaced by silver. People who do not have money should also send crickets and silver, goose wine, tea cakes, etc.
The gifts for giving more gifts, campaign gold -sleeved yellow Luo, gold skirt satin, red long skirt or red vegetarian lofty satin, as well as jewelry such as pearls of beads, four o'clock crowns, pearl green rings and other jewelry , And the fine -colored satin, crickets, adding tea, fruit, reunion cakes, sheep wine and other objects. Two envelopes are also encapsulated to apply for books to make a ritual shape.
Is after the female family is hired, they also need to thank them with gifts. Generally, they use Green Purple, color satin, Jinyu Wenfang toys, Zhu Cui, and female workers. In addition, it is also necessary to send the matchmaker's "media box". The box is equipped with satin, cup dishes, money, etc., and presented with a red gift box. After the men's family gave the gift, there was no need to give gifts to the woman in the New Year, only to choose a day to get married.
This family chose a good day, and told the female family that the female family agreed that the male family could come to meet her. The day before greeting, the female family sent someone to the male home first, paved the house and hung the tent, and placed the house, jewelry and other things. After the new house is arranged, let the most friendly woman or a married woman guard the new house, and prevent outsiders from entering the room. Only after the newcomer comes, the new house is opened.
The man's family is holding vases, candlers, incense balls, samples, sasho, candlesticks, skirt boxes, clothing boxes, blue umbrellas, plays, and hire the band to escort, and hire the band to escort Flower sedan, blow all the way, go to the female house to marry a new woman.
The women who use their family wines to be taken to relatives, and emit red silver and profitable money for everyone, and then the band plays the music "to urge makeup".
Pets after the woman boarded the car, and the person who lifted the burden and carried a sedan did not start immediately after the money was finished.
The band played music at this time, advocating all the way, welcoming the newcomer to the man's house. The bride's sedan arrived at the door of the man's house. People who welcomed the relatives such as musicians, kabuki, tea and wine to read each other, and stopped the door for money. Mr. Yin and Yang fits the bucket boxes of full -grain beans, money, colorful fruit, etc., looking at the door and sprinkle, and children are scrambling to pick up, called "Satan beans". Satuga bean is intended to suppress the evil god of Qingyang Sha.
The newcomers get out of the car, one person holds the mirror in front of him, and the two relative women support the newcomer to move forward. The newcomers are not allowed to step on the ground, they can only walk on the green mattress or green felt, green cloth strip, and flower mats. The newcomer wants to cross the saddle and walk through the scale.
It enter the middle door to the first room. Among them, the new woman goes in, named "sitting in the virtual account", or go straight into the room, sitting in the bed, called "rich and expensive".
Couns family relatives and guests who send female guests to return after eating three wines, which means that four wines are prepared for the male family, and they will be sent to the female guests. .
The color satin hanging in front of the new house door, first cut the bottom into a broken strip shape. After the groom wearing a green robe and the official uniform of the flower head entered the door, the crowd will compete for the broken strip. Gate red ".
The groom invited the new woman in front of the bed. , The man fell out of the door so that the two people could face each other.
In a pair of new couples, and then the man's double -daughter -in -law, using a scale pole or other things to open the bride's hijab. At this time, Fang Lu's bride face. The two of them saluted the relatives. Then the woman fell, and held the groom back to the room, and then sat in bed. When sitting, the woman was left and the man to the right. At this time, there were women with money and color. Sprinkle the satin and fruit, and then connect the two wine glasses with red and green colored knots. The men and women drink a glass of each, named "Flowing Cup Wine". After drinking, put the wine glass under the bed and take the meaning of great auspiciousness. At the same time, the male left and women's right -handed hair "knot", also known as "harmony".
The flower with the flower on the woman's head at this time, the female solves a buttons. Then the newcomer will be When I went to the middle hall to participate in the gratitude, my relatives and friends must celebrate, and the newcomers worshiped the in -laws of my in -laws together. Since then, all relatives have entered the gift.
Five times on the next day, use a table to install the mirror table to put the mirror on it. The new woman worshiped the worship, called "New Women's By Worship". Then worship the relatives of the elderly, and presented with color satin, ingenuity, shoe and socks, etc., called "Receiving Congratulations". On the three days, the female family put crown flowers, color satin, and goose eggs, and used gold and silver tanks to fill the oily honeydin. In addition, she was sent to the male house with tea cakes, goose sheep, fruits, etc.
The groom and groom went to the female house to worship the door on the three or seven days, and nine days. Huilang "ended, the female family asked the band to advocate to send it home.
The female family would" wash her hair "within nine days. My dear and relatives are called "He Manyue Club".
This above, showing that the Song Dynasty's people marrying and marrying etiquette were cumbersome, and there were a lot of famous names, which reflected the customs of weddings at the time.